I’m a huge fan of the work of Merlin Mann (of 43 Folders & You Look Nice Today Fame) on so men levels. Today I read a post from one of his blogs called Kung Fu Grippie, and I thought “HOT SHIT AND HAPPY DAMN! That is a great way to explain something that is soooo complex…”
This is what I saw:
[Kazurinsky] said, “Damnit, Del, I just don’t have it in me to be an ogre.”
And Del said, “Damnit, do you think ogres are born? Ogres think they’ve been hurt worse than anybody else. So you don’t play the hatred. You play the hurt.”
And I just sat there and thought, “Oh, my God, I think I’ve just learned something about life.”
So great on so many levels.
Seriously. How awesome is that?
It is really what I was talking about here when I wrote about how I think people should respond to rude behavior with class and style. Mr. Mann’s example is a really great way to illustrate what I was attempting to get at.